Loving yourself, fully and completely for who YOU are is still one of the hardest things there is. Realizing you are unique, special and one of a kind. Being you, and only you, is sometimes really hard!
When I'm having trouble with this, I always think of this following story:
There once was a king who took a walk in his garden, what he found where dried out and sobbing trees.
The oak tree was dying of misery because he would never grow as high as the pine-tree.
The pine-tree was sobbing because he didn't had any grapes. And the rosebush was sad because she didn't had any flowers.
But there was one little plant that was shining with such great radiance: the small heart's ease.
'I assumed you wanted a radiant heart's ease when you planted me' ,he said to the king.
" So I thought: let's be the best heart's ease there is'.
What I'm trying to say is this: Let's all just shine in our own glorious personal way.
Be who you want to be. Let's be the best goddamn version of yourself!