We all have dreams, small dreams and BIG dreams. But most of the time those dreams are hold back because of our fears. Which is just really absurd actually.. to let fear guide you. Fear is the worst guide in life. You read about it all the time, but it never really got trough to me.
But now it has..
Next to my work as a hairdresser I'v been working for a big worldwide company with some great products and great business opportunities.
I'v been trying to build up my business a little bit, together with my sweet and helpful friends/colleagues, but now I realize that my own fears have been holding me back.
Being afraid of what some people might think or say, and there for being afraid what they are going to think of me.
I know I can't fill in other people's thoughts, I know damn well, but it's so easy to do, it's safe. Or no, I just got used to it. But now I know it will always hold you back from doing stuff, and I'm done with it!
It is such a waist of time, because you can never ever tell what someone is thinking.
You can never predict what is going to happen when you make a move that is out of your comfort zone. Which is( there it is again) scary, but sometimes scary is good. Sometimes change is good.
If you would never be scared, it would be kind of weird. Being scared also means you care! Just know that fear is a normal human emotion, but don't get carried away in it.
Realize that most of your fears aren't real. You just made them up in your head, but you see them as something very real...but only your mind has made them up, and your mind, your thoughts aren't facts , are they? Right...So you can choose to believe those thoughts, or choose to take your thoughts and your fear, look at it, acknowledge it and then turn it into something more powerful then fear. What that is, is only something you can discover.
So get out of your comfort zone sometimes, try new things, although it scares you. But you will see the more you do it, the less it scares you.
And also very important.... always, ALWAYS believe in yourself. Be confident of yourself, know that you are capable!